Free guide · The Four Keys

Know if he's worth a first date before you say yes.

Four casual questions to ask in the DMs, on FaceTime, or across the table. His answers show you who he really is, fast.

✓ The exact words to ask, plus the follow-up that tells you the truth

✓ The red flag to listen for in his answer

✓ A bonus question that shows if he wants a fling or the real thing

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I'm Amanda Carroll. I've helped 1,200 women stop guessing and start choosing.

These four questions are where my clients start. Here's where they ended up.

Divorced with two teenage girls and dreading 100 first dates. She met Graham on her fourth date.

Kendra + Graham

Widowed after marrying at 20, she had never dated. She found Stephen in her first month.

Grace + Stephen

Five years on the apps, traveling 80% for work. Now Corey tucks handwritten notes in her suitcase.

Jessica + Corey

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